Find My Friends, the brainchild of Pittsburgh-based artist Sebastian Kinsler, departs from his previous project’s knack for indie and grunge and takes a dip into dreampop, music that feels like you’re sitting somewhere ethereal (like the album cover). I recently sat down virtually with Kinsler to discuss his first solo release “Call” released late last month.
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
Chloe Gonzales: Introduce yourself!
Sebastian Kinsler: My name is Sebastian. I have a project called Find My Friends and I’m in a band called feeble little horse.
CG: I always like to open up the floor, especially for artists who don’t have stuff on the Internet, but what is your elevator pitch?
SK: Find My Friends is a bunch of home recordings I did for fun. It’s really simple repetitive guitar songs mixed with DNB and computer sounds.
CG: Sick. Is this your first solo project? How many projects have you been in prior to this?
SK: I was in a few nothing bands before and I posted some of my own music on SoundCloud. But this is my first, like, official release or full album that I’ve done myself.
CG: How many variations did you go through before you landed on your name and sound?
SK: I thought it was really funny to have the name be like some brand so I went through a couple of different ones and then I got to Find My Friends. And I thought that was very funny, and it also hit a little bit as a solo project. The sounds are just– I make the music I want to make, so it’s always kind of sounded like this.
CG: No, I really like Find My Friends, I found it funny too because I always have my little Sims on there, checking in on everyone. So cute.
SK: Yeah, it feels so unhealthy but I’m definitely always on there!
CG: I noticed on your Instagram that you’ve played previous shows with the likes of Melania Kol, who I personally saw at DRKMTTR in Nashville. What did that show and other shows look like without having any previous material online? Was it harder to garner an audience by not having anything to really point to?
SK: I mean, I didn’t really play them to get an audience. I just had all these songs and I was planning on starting this and then my friends were like, “Do you want to play this show?” So my girlfriend and I scraped together a live act. Have you ever seen Hooky play?
CG: No, but I know who they are!
SK: You have to catch them if they get to LA. They have the craziest live set of all time. And we tried to replicate the same thing, just because it’s a really cool performance. The dude Scott from Hooky runs his guitar into a sample board, and the other dude, Sam, remixes the guitar live while he’s playing it. Really sick. So my girlfriends and I replicated that.
CG: Oh, sick as fuck. Does your girlfriend help you out, like is she part of the project?
SK: She’s played live with me a few times but not on the songs unfortunately.
CG: How were audience reactions to that [the live performance]?
SK: The people were very nice. They were into the songs and said it was good afterwards. But no one’s gonna say, “Hey, that sucks.” People did say something, like, “Man, once that stuff is mixed, it’s gonna sound awesome!” And I was like, “That is mixed.”
CG: I’ve also been listening to your single “Call” a lot, obviously for research but I enjoyed it heavily. I would kind of describe it – correct me if I’m wrong but also to each their own – dream pop with some electronic influence, maybe a little of drum & bass? But how do you want this project to sound? This is your first release, but it sounds like, according to your Instagram bio, that you have stuff cooked up.
SK: Yeah, I mean I just think it’s a really interesting sound that I haven’t heard in a lot of places before and it’s wildly fun to make because I love live drum sets, but I can’t play the drums. But if you put really fast D&B drums under it, it’s just so much energy. It’s just fun to make, all the songs I make are fun to make.
CG: Would you say that the album encapsulates this sound, or does it kind of bounce around? Because it seems like, the way you described it, it’s kind of you’re doing what you want. So sometimes that can look like an album hodge-podged all together.
SK: I think “Call” is one of the more poppy, experimental cuts. It [the album] swings on both sides. There’s a song that’s more traditional guitar music, and a song that’s straight electronic, weird dancing, and then stuff that’s in between.
CG: I see, you’ve got a range there. That’s fun, not really restricting yourself, a fun project in general. By the way you’re describing it, “Fuck it, we ball.” Another piece I really liked was the artwork. Oh I love the artwork! My favorite part is the little sticker detail which is like $1.50 but also the track length.
SK: Oh, I didn’t know, that was coincidental!
CG: Well maybe that was me trying to read into it.
SK: So the song is 1:50? That’s so sick. The artwork was done by my girlfriend’s best friend named Anna Jungle. She’s wildly talented. So I hit her up and it took months because I suck to work with art-wise, because I have really specific things that I like, but I don’t know how to communicate them. So essentially, Anna just had to throw a bunch of shit at me until I was like, “I like this and this, but not exactly them,” and then it slowly turned into that artwork, which is so perfect and exactly what I wanted.
CG: I just know that process pissed them off, like “Damn bitchhh.”
SK: Dude, yeah just like so annoyed.
CG: It turned out really well. Back in the day I used to do anime drawings, so I ate that up. But the little character and everything works really well with the song. I would say at first it would be more for a mellow song, but I don’t know, a lot of stuff is a feeling and it feels right. Anna killed that.
SK: Yeah, I think so too. And like, you know if that’s right, if it feels right.
CG: Exactly, it’s a feeling overall. Stepping back out into the environment of your project – there’s a couple of artists I’ve interviewed before where they’ve had bigger projects and then they make side projects. One in particular, they were like, “Oh I don’t want the two of them to cross.” Like they want their side projects to be completely separate from their more popular projects. Given the success of your other project, do you want to merge audiences, or do you want it to rise more organically. Like, how do you want to present this to people?
SK: I mean feeble is still my baby. I can only think about one thing at a time. So when we were making the feeble album, I pretty much made no songs for myself, and then we finished that album, and then I made a bunch of songs for myself. And now that I’m done with that, and now feeble is working on new stuff, so I’m not making any more songs for myself. So it’s pretty easy to keep it separate, whatever’s the focus at the time, that’s where my songs are gonna go.
CG: But do you want to keep it separate?
SK: No, I don’t care at all.
CG: It’s not that deep for you.
SK: Right. We’ve been talking about feeble playing some Find My Friends songs as covers, which I think would be really fun.
CG: That’d be sick as fuck! This is more of a comment, but I enjoy your Instagram in the sense that it’s whatever you want it to be. You’re just throwing whatever out there, don’t think twice about it. I like the non-curated vibes, just really chill. I think sometimes it connects with audiences more.
SK: I really wish I didn’t need to have Instagram. I was completely off Instagram until feeble released our first EP, and then ever since then, I had to have the app on my phone because like, I have so many friends on there. It’s the only way they can talk to me, which is so frustrating. So I try to put little thought into it as possible, which I think connects with people, because there’s other people that feel like, “Why the fuck are we putting so much effort into this thing that doesn’t matter at all?”
CG: No, absolutely. And it’s kind of frustrating, especially as a smaller artist, that’s the only way sometimes you can get your music out.
SK: Exactly, there’s nothing else.
CG: Are you on Tiktok or anything else too? Do you try to keep it as minimal as possible?
SK: I’m on Instagram and anything else? Youtube, I’m on YouTube a lot, on YouTube shorts.
CG: Stop, I bet my little brother will see you on there.
SK: We probably watch the same videos.
CG: That’s very interesting, I don’t know a lot of artists that do any YouTube shorts, but also probably close-minded of me, because I don’t watch them, so I don’t discover them through that. I find it’s like family channel content stuff on there.
SK: That’s exactly what it is. It’s not anything good.
CG: Oh so you fuck with that, my bad.
SK: It’s just less addictive, like videos of people doing parkour and baseball highlights and Minecraft.
CG: Oh my God, don’t get me started on Minecraft. What’s it looking like in the future [for you]? Do you have any upcoming shows or anything?
SK: I don’t know if I’m gonna play any shows as Find My Friends anymore.
CG: Oh, interesting! Really?
SK: Yeah, I don’t love playing shows. I like making albums and I like making songs. I don’t love the show playing part of it. This is my project, so I don’t need to play shows. I don’t need to grow my audience. Maybe one or two, for fun.
CG: So one of them should be in LA actually, in the UCLA Radio station, but I digress. So would you say you prefer playing in the studio than live to an audience?
SK: Yeah, my favorite part is making recordings really and eventually you gotta bring them to live, and gotta make them worse in some way to make them live.
CG: Do you ever use Apple Notes to jot down ideas for your project or like–
SK: I’m a voice memos dude.
CG: Yes, voice memos, that’s the other one. I know a lot of artists that end up doing that. Like waking up from a dream and having an idea and saying it on there.
SK: Yeah, I used to have a Notes app when I was on Twitter. I would take interesting lines from Twitter that I would see and throw them into one long notes app. And then if I wanted to write a song, I could look through it and get inspiration. There’s one feeble song called “Healing” that started like that, and then “Call’ started like that because I saw a video of this dude getting a phone call from his brother that was on deployment. I don’t really remember the context, but I remember the feeling of a call that changes your life.
CG: Wait, sick. One more question for you: Everyone who has a show here at UCLA Radio has a DJ name. For example, mine’s DJ Adderall Spritz. What would your DJ name be if you had a show here on UCLA Radio?
SK: DJ Find My.
Find My Friends debut self-titled album is set to be released May 30th via Bloody Knuckles. You can pre-order it now as well as a CD copy. Listen to the first single “call” now.
Written by Chloe Gonzales



















